Coaching Norms Challenge
Here’s the full list from tonight’s Svenvite session — no printout needed. Pick one that hits and run the question-refinement process with your staff.
- 1) Where do your notes sleep? What wake-up alarms do you put on them?
- 2) Huddle break scenario — assistants desperate for a role over coach and break: hear it, see it, chew it, do it flow.
- 3) How do you draw? Standard vs. label passes, label read progression? Color coded? Pass line equals sequence number?
- 4) When we assign “they don’t get it”… what happens next?
- 5) Why are we set in stone before a BLOB or SLOB?
- 6) Why do we stand away from our staff all game long? If we don’t need their voice, that’s one thing… but then why do so few have a notebook/device — and why do we need them on the bench?
- 7) If body language SCREAMS, why don’t we watch film of ourselves on MUTE? Would you let your kids grade your in-game performance?
- 8) When we cut kids and say “keep your head up and get to work,” where does that work happen? Redemption League 2x/week? A “Second Chance Coach” with a card?
- 9) Is your “system” first / only / best? Which is easier to achieve? Easiest to sustain? When have you or it been all three?
- 10) Would the vibe improve if scoreboards didn’t list team fouls? If it never said 5–0, does the angst/strife drop?
- 11) Killshot Formula Search: Based on pace/PPP, when can we stop shooting vs. when must we stay aggressive? (FB “go for two” charts / Elam Ending logic.)
How to Run the Curiosity → Thesis Reframing
For coaches who weren’t at the session: here’s the 8–10 minute drill we ran. Use it in a staff meeting or with captains.
- Pick one prompt from the list above that actually bothers or intrigues you.
- Turn it into a claim (thesis) you can challenge. Example:
Prompt: “Why are we set in stone before BLOB/SLOB?” → Thesis: “We should be set in spots before every BLOB/SLOB.” - Rapid-fire questions (1–2 minutes): Everyone calls out any questions about that thesis. Write them all down. No filtering, no speeches. Aim for 10–12.
- Reframe to open-ended: Convert every yes/no into a how/what/when/why question. (Open questions drive better answers.)
- Prioritize three: Group votes on the three questions you’d bring to a real staff meeting this week.
- Assign ownership: You choose the one you most want answered. Hand the other two to different staff members/captains.
- Do the work (next 3–7 days): Watch film, pull clips, test a rep in practice, look up data, call a coach you trust. Bring back evidence, not vibes.
- Regroup + decide (20–30 minutes): Eat chicken, drink soda, and make a call: keep, tweak, or toss the thesis. Document next steps.
Tip: Put a rookie assistant or a captain in charge of timing and capturing notes. Curiosity is a skill — give people reps running the room.
Bonus: Critical Thinking Cheatsheet
Included in the 2-page download is a quick-reference visual to help you turn observations into stronger questions during film, scouting, or leadership meetings.

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